I can’t escape the debate so I’m going to make a little statement of my position.
1: It’s already illegal to shoot people. This indicates to me that legislation does not cause people to behave.
2: In my research, legislation does not control the black market – only influences the directions in which it flows. I believe those who seek guns will find them.
3: Violence in the media is a circular situation – Violence in real life is reflected in entertainment and vice versa.
4: My conclusion is that there is an unwellness in our society… a lack of respect for life. I believe this is caused by the degradation of the family unit and public education problems. I was more scared for my physical well being in the public school system than anywhere else I’ve been in my entire life. That is not an exaggeration.
5: Guns are no more the cause of violence than cars the cause of road deaths. Both the wrecks I was in were caused by inattentiveness of drivers (back to respect for life/respect for others).
I consider myself an empowered, confident woman – not forced to be “momma”. I choose to stay home with my daughter because it’s the right thing to do as a mammal. Dog mommas take care of their pups. Lionesses care for their young. Bears protect their cubs while they need it. When young are properly cared for, they grow up more emotionally balanced and healthy than if they are not. I don’t worry about gender specific behavior. A man can care for a newborn as well as a woman (aside from lack of boobies)… The best food for our young is love and support and lots and lots of hugs and kisses.
Maybe this is overly simplistic, but, for the purpose of a brief blog entry, it’s enough for now. An individual who feels connected to the world and those around them will find it much harder to harm them. Starting with love is much better and more effective in my opinion than starting with fear and legislation. Economic conditions in this country make many feel that they must work and be away from their loved ones a great deal of the time causing havoc on nutrition and emotional support. The most common complaint I hear these days is about lack of money and stress resulting thereof.
How do you think we can fix this agony in our society?